Thanks everyone for your replies.

DP won't help which is why I was waiting for him to go away for 2 nights before starting, the theory being by the third night DS will not resist so much and dp might be able to help (dp doesn't handle DS crying very well )

I think he is getting a third molar so I don't think I can go threw with it... will wait until Friday to see how he is before I make a decision.

Thanks BJ, I think the midnight is going to be the hardest too as he really seems to wake up and feeds for the longest then. The others are more just a comfort thing I think. I have tried cuddling him and a few times it worked but he is really getting attached to his boo again which is cute but....

I am being really selfish wanting to night wean really like Marcellus said I don't think it is going to stop him from waking up. How do you resettle Marcellus??
I have my sisters hen's party coming up in Jan, her wedding in Feb, my 30th in March and would love to go away for the june long weekend. I would love to be away for the nights.... I am prayinng if he isn't night wean that he doesn't wake up like your DS Marlene for your night out (luv the photo's btw ) but there is no way dp will agree to let me go away in June if he isn't weaned