Why didn't I see this before now??!!

Hun, it sounds like you have things well and truly under control. I too found I was happy to keep bfing as long as I wasn't being woken during the night (unless she was sick). It's amazing how much better you feel about self weaning when it suits your terms as well as your toddler's. They can be such determined little beings! GL and I hope your mutually-agreeable bfing relationship continues as long as you both want.

FWIW my DD still has her morning bf and I try to convince her that bbs are still asleep when it's dark, but once the light is peeping through (thank goodness for daylight saving) that one doesn't work. Most mornings it buys me at least an extra half hour in bed though. She generally comes in sometime after 5 am.