I think you might want to tell her now - in a month Mum will have a sore tummy. And you are not going to be allowed to squash it so we need to practise.
You may find that she works out how to feed upside down or something similar - but at least you're not going to be trying to teach her when you really have a sore tum.
I wasn't tandem feeding, but found that even when he tried to be gentle DS hurt - so I told him so, and that it wasn't his fault, but his mouth had got too big and strong for my boobs, so he wouldn't be able to feed any more. He accepted that pretty easily - there were a few weeks of wanting to pat them and make sure they were OK, but no attempts to feed.
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