hugs to you hun, i recon il have the same problem, cant imagine DD ever wanting to wean!!! my friend weaned her dd by cutting down to one feed just before bed time then eventually stopping that one, involved crying a screaming in the end it worked, i would be lovely if they could all self wean, but i guess sometimes you have to give things a bit of a push! i think by her screaming and eventually getting boob she might think that is how to continue so it might be a bit harder. DD want to feed all bloomin day so if its just before dinner or ten mins before bed or something and i want to eat or wait a little i tell her they are empty till bed time. she understands that, maybe you could try explaining that milk is going and she has to have milk in a cup casue its all gone. Maybe take her shopping and let her pick a special cup that she likes. hugs to you. hope you work it out!!