Oh sweetheart - I know exactly how you feel. I am getting married in one week and we are having a private ceremony with just two friends as witnesses because there were too many hassles with DP's family and if i heard "I won't come if so and so is coming" one more time I was going to scream! Funnily enough we haven't even told them about the wedding and I am sure that some still think that there will be an invitation comign in the mail soon.

But back to your issue. I can sort of see it both ways. You have two dads in your life but eveyr father has dreams of giving his little girl away.

I say that you have raised it with him and it may just take a little time for him to get used to the idea. I would say just let it settle for a while.

Another option would be to let one walk you down the isle and the other to have the first dance after the bridal waltz.

I hope that it all comes together and is the perfect wedding day that you want too