I must be tacky too then?? We really didn't need anything and wanted money instead to save to buy our first car. We did say though that they 'could' contribute to the wishing well OR buy a present. We got a few presents (vases, etc) and I have given them all away bc they were things we already had.

When I give a gift I want it to be something they'll really appreciate rather than something I would like so if they've told me that what they really want is money then I'm happy to give that.