Jazahmum - aww thats so nice of you to ask, sorry i havent been back in here to thank you for your ideas, I have just been flat out, organising a party for 50 odd people with a little one and cooking everything yourself is such a big task.

We havent got her anything yet, we were just going to contribute to her wishing well and then she could use all the money and get exactly what she wanted, however I AM SO ANNOYED on the invites I wrote a little poem requesting gift vouchers or money anonymously, and not one person contributed to it they all brought presents that are of no use - the exact thing we were trying to avoid, how much freakin body wash does one person need , seriously.