I have a few friends I am considering;
1/ I considered using except that she is so anti-marriage that I don't know if I would gain the support I might need from her,
My maid of honour was incredibly anti-marriage. On several occasions she had to be reminded by my other bridesmaids that her comments were not appropriate. But she has been my best friend since year 7 and I absolutely adore her so it was natural that I would choose her for my maid of honour. On the day she was AMAZING - an absolute godsend. She made sure I was happy, fed, calm and collected and was everything you would expect from a MOH. She wasn't like that in the beginning though - she had to learn when to shut up - and thankfully she did!

So you might be surprised!