ok, so here's the deal. My parents dont approve of my boyfriend. Weve been together a year and a half and I KNOW he's the one for me. Theres a certain somebody in my distant family who used to be mine and my boyfriends boss. A disagreement occured and because my boyfriend quit, this family member wanted to get even. Rumors were spread, resulting in my family disliking my boyfriend. Anyways, I am a student in college and we really want to get married, but since I am still financially dependent on my parents(insurance, school, etc) I'm afraid that if we elope, when they file their taxes they will find out. Because I DEFINATELY don't want them to find out for a coule of years (like one or two). THey'll be ****ed either way, my dad has even said that there's a possibility he'll cut me out of the family if I stay with him (make the big committment). So either way I go they wont like it, so I'd rather not walk down an isle that I have to drag my dad down. Is it possible they will find out this way?