DH#1 - I was 19 & he was 21when we met. We got engaged when I was 23 and married when I was 24 so nearly 5 years before we got married. Separated 3 years later after a total of 8 years together. We never lived together beforehand.

DH#2 - We got together in Sept 07 I moved in March 08, he propsed on our 1 year anniversary in Sept 08 and married April this year...so a total of about 19 months.....oh pregnant in July/August and first bubba due May 2010, two weeks after our first wedding anniversary. Ahhh that is moving fast when I read that LOL

Suppose you just never really know until you meet someone how it will all end up