I need your thoughts ladies - is it the PG hormones - or is this not such a crazy idea?? You be the judge...

DF and I are expecting bub number 2 - at the end of July (ish)...and were planning on getting married elopement style in Pt Douglas late next year / early the following year.

Lately I've been thinking, and last night I asked DF how he felt about getting married just in a very intimate ceremony - just us, our daughter, a celebrant and two witnesses - and then getting our vows renewed in QLD...doing the whole big white dress thing, limo, pictures etc thing.

DF was cool with the idea (as it'd be his second marriage) but he never previously mentioned it as he thought I wanted / deserved something a bit 'bigger' when we went to get married (which isn't the case mainly because there are 'issues' with his family - his parents are divorced and would kill each other if in the same space - not to mention their new partners- and it'd just be easier for us to go away and elope).

His only concern is that we should wait until after the bubba is born (in case he ends up coming early lol)....I was hoping to get married before bubba is born - but this way we can say both of our kids were at the wedding...

Am I / we crazy? Is this something we may regret in the future? If I'm not so crazy - when do you think - before /after bubba is born???

xxx