I actually think it would do him some good to be alone with the 2 girls, especially when Z will be little.. only as with A he didn't do a lot until now thats she's more 'FUN' lol

I trust him 100% and think it might make him realise my jobs not as easy as he thinks... lol
I know ti sounds horrible and i could NEVER have left A behind at that age and i really didn't want to think about it with Z either but this is a life long friend (literally)... maybe i can convince DP to let me take Z, she wont cost anything... hmmmm

I know what you mean about not leaving them though... i cried when i went in for day surgery when A was 6mths old