My 21st is coming up... what did everyone do for theirs?

[Amelia]

My 21st isn't till next June but my mum has always thrown a massive party for my 2 older brothers and buys us all personalised number plates. Why don't you just have a massive party and get everyone to bring a dish!!

What suggestions have you already come up with that other people don't like?? It's your birthday and if that is what you want HAVE IT!!

[Indadhanu]

Well, all I have asked for is to go shopping (need some spring/summer clothes), or a day at a spa or something... apparently no one will give me something unless I can keep it forever... which to me seems silly because I'd rather something I can enjoy now, than just have it sit on my cabinet looking at me.

I don't want a party, as I'm not a party girl, I don't drink alcohol, I really woldn't enjoy myself around a bunch of drunken people!!!! I just want to go out for a nice dinner or lunch or you know I'd reallylike to just have fish and chips on the beach at dusk with Shel... but apparently thats not good enough. Even MIL is saying "No, you have to do something wild!!!!"

I'm was just wondering if anyone did anything tame or even boring (though boring is fine by me) for their 21st, so I can say "look, see, you don't HAVE to be a drunken fool on your 21st!!!".