Hi cookiemonster,

Just discovered this too and I know exactly how you feel. We got married in rush in registry, it was organised within a week. Booked Tuesday, squeezed in for Sat arvo left o/s Sunday. The registry was nice but I wouldn't recommend quite the rush. Anyway every since we've been planning the real day and its all such a fuss.

Anyway... you asked about renewals in a church later on. We're planning to do this... one day. They're called "blessing ceremonies" and its all the bells and whistles minus paperwork. I have looked at several denominations and most say that they have a requirement of having at least one person bride or groom must have been baptised in a Christian religion. So don't feel you can't approach any church.

Another suggestion we had was to just organise a big picnic in botanical gardens, I love the idea but dh has his heart set on feeding people. One day...