caro - it was me who posted about the chupa chup thing and believe me i was not impressed by it at all. we had a massive fight about it as i felt like he had crossed the line and gone too far. i am a pretty reasonable and tolerant person but this made my blood boil. especially as i was sitting at home 7 months pg not feeling too sexually attractive iykwim? in his defence, the story is that he was sitting on a chair drinking a beer wayching the show when she inserted the chupa chup in her and then proceeded to do a backflip onto him, knocked his beer all over him (i then had to wash his beer covered shirt grrr) and landed with the chupa chup basically right in his face so he was left with not much of a choice but to bite the stick out with his mouth simply so she could move on with her 'show' and get off him. it's all part of the act apparantly and very dirty. let me just say that he wasn't proud about doing it..and when he told me about it it was more he was just telling me matter of factly this is how it happened iykwim? anyway, i was glad he told me and was 100% honest with me about it. i agree it is very sleazy and dirty though and my dp is a very honest and loyal bloke. he's not a sleazebag at all and has never given me any reason not to trust him ever.
talking about dirty shows though, my ex once had a work xmas party where they had two female strippers come and dress up in school uniforms and perform a live sex act in front of them all. nice hey??