Oh my gosh, you guys are enthusiastic, lol!
Those are some fab ideas!
I know where to come when i get stuck on the next thing!
Love the one for the bonboniere's Cai & that cake looks excellent too!

Kim - i love the idea for the invitations!! Yuo have soooo got me thinking with your suggestions...
Catrionalee - i originally found the cake on that site! We saw the Nintendo one but it just got better with the Mario one lol.

I think it will be mostly colour orientated STS. I wont do the whole thing mario lol.
And little things like the bonboniere's and centrepieces could be Mario etc. Rach - I LOVE the suggestion for centrepieces!
Looks like i might have to indulge my old employers with the satisfaction of buying from them again... good old Spotlight may become my best friend lol.
I was going to cross stitch the pillow as well - mum can help hers is awesome! Maybe i could make two sides, one with mario and princess peach and one with the more 'formal' look IYKWIM.

Tiggerlinda - thanks for the offer but at this stage i think i have a photographer sorted... mates rates are too much of a good deal!

Asc for the cake when i started looking at images yesterday we were going to have cupcakes and then a top tier to cut so i wonde if we could do mushroom cupcakes or turtle shells or something...

Keep the ideas coming, you guys are fantastic!