Princess Confused well sweetie, just remember that he may be a so and so to others, but to you he's "Your" so and so, so that is all that matters! Gee there was a lot of so's in all that lmao! Something like that that happens in a relationship either makes it or breaks it, in our case, makes it! I will never ever forget what he did, but my healing has allowed me to forgive him. omg congradulations sweetie, oh make it a magical day, and remember that the little soul that was not ready to enter this world at that time, will be right there with his mamma and pappa, so you truly will be surrounded with love on your special day!