Thanks Nickle,

Isnt that sad, that your 'friends' couldnt send a card to everyone who attended the wedding, regardless of whether they boasted about how much money they put in the well.
To some degree I think a wishing should be re-named 'how much do you value our friendship/relationship.'
the bride and groom are good friends, they are amazing with the girls, and I am rather proud that DD1 gets to be their flowergirl.
I love shopping for people. I love walking through shops and finding the perfect gift. Well I think its the perfect gift anyhow!

That being said; is it them bad to not put anything in the well or buy them something for the day? But send them a gift when we get home, get another paycheck and can afford it?? Thats what they did for us when we got married.