well at the end of the day the decision is up to you both & it's your special day so you do whatever you want that makes you both happy . i personally don't really like the idea of surprise weddings. like Nel above said you will get people who won't show, but if they knew it was a wedding & lets say they "felt sick" they would make that extra effort to come because it's your wedding, not just a party IYKWIM. also you could get people coming in very casual clothes, that might not bother you, but it would bother me. there's more reasons but i just can't think for now.
ohhhhh LOL. so sorry! i totally misunderstood. i have never heard of that. wow that would be different haha! what would be the "occasion" that you would tell him? how would you get him to rock up in a suit? what about his groomsmen? lots of things to think about. keep us updated
AWW that just stuffed things up for me then lol. i new i had to give a month notice and i was gonna do it cause he's away on work at the moment and was gonna book a few days away for us and pack the suit and tell him the day we got married. so i just flushed my ideas down the loo lol. thanks ladies
Last edited by OceanPrincess; May 5th, 2013 at 07:10 PM.
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we are engaged already and yeah he has a say and he wants to get married we were gonna do it about 10 months ago but he had to go away up north for work so we put it off and now his gone for another month i thought it would be nice once he gets back to do it (what he does want). but i guess he will know then i have everything ready just no date and place. So we just gotta wait for him to come home to set the date and place.
. i personally don't really like the idea of surprise weddings. like Nel above said you will get people who won't show, but if they knew it was a wedding & lets say they "felt sick" they would make that extra effort to come because it's your wedding, not just a party IYKWIM. also you could get people coming in very casual clothes, that might not bother you, but it would bother me. there's more reasons but i just can't think for now.
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