Good memory: We couldn't afford a photographer and we got married in the registry office, so all our guests brought their cameras, we met up at a local park, and they all took photos and emailed them to us - we have some stunning shots, none of them posed because we weren't under pressure

Bad memory: DH's parents had such issues with our low key wedding that they refused to come to our reception. They ended up coming, for about 10 minutes, and left just as my parents were getting there. They were embarrassed at the table decorations my mum had made, and mortified that we had it at a local sports club on karaoke night. It upset DH a lot, I wish they hadn't come at all if they weren't going to stay.