Scorpiomum .... Hoping that u will give your bridesmaids & groomsmen plenty of notice that they are paying for their own outfit, etc...

My DH brother never told him he had 2 pay 4 his own rental suit until my DH returned his suit the day after his brothers Wedding 2 find out he was expected 2 pay 4 it. We had a new mortgage & money was tight ... And we hadn't budgeted for it. Was very embarrasing for my DH !!

Also my DH sister was a bridesmaid at the same Wedding & she found out only moments b4 the hair & make up lady turned up that she had 2 have $90 2 pay 4 it that day. She was so angry that she wasn't told beforehand & she had jst purchased a home & had not budgete for it either !!

Also PLEASE keep in mind that if you don't give an invititation 2 all that u want 2 invite don't expect people 2 assume they are invited. I did not know if I was invited as there was NO invite & nothing was said 2 me or my DH .... & it's a bit rude 2 ask "R u invited" jst incase u r not. My DH's sister's boyfriend was in the same situation & did not know if he was invited. We needed 2 know more so we could plan ahead 2 put in for the day off work (as we were meant 2 be working that day).