Im just going to hook up my SIL's lappy to speakers, that is acceptable and we can program what songs we want and just hit "random".
WE are ending up with 4 bridesmaids/grooms as noses got put out of joint, BUT i found a "cheap" reception where i dont need a car to drive me too as i can get ready there and 'hide out in the bridal escape' room..... Have the ceremony then go for pics around there and then go in for the reception. So i have saved $800 there.
Bridesmaids are buying their own dresses and paying for their hair and makeup, i am buying them a nice necklace for the wedding and for them to keep.
Thinking of hiring/getting a preloved gown, Paying for it way before the wedding, (even though i am going to be pregnant i can get it fixed up by a friend if need be)
My sister can do my wedding cake (yep i forgot she did that in melbourne doh!) so that will just be the cost of the materials...
My sisters partner is a family friend of a celebrant AND a photographer, so we may get that LOADS cheaper...
I think its pulling together really well!!