WWYD re wedding invite

[Salsa]

Yep, they are not expecting people to bring gifts unless they really want to (usually it`ll be family etc that still do).

Please get in touch and clarify about the childminding for you and them.
At my wedding we arranged childcare and specifically invited children by names on invites. The rsvps were returned indicating that children would be attending, so we went ahead with our plans to cater for the kiddies, and then on the day most of the parents left their kids at home , only for about half of those to make comments to us later in the day like " oh, little johnny would have loved this..."

[Rach75]

thanks girls so emailig groom at work worked well sought of this is the reply I got

bride has been talking to a lady about child care and has it pencilled in, however we need to confirm with her.
We will let you know when we find out the details.

what to do...well they know I iwont come to reception if nothing definate has been arranged can't do much more than that can I...if anyone knows a good babysitter on stradbroke island please let me know

I am so freaked about leaving him this has been playing on my mind since they got engaged last year