I found the same thing about returning to work. I did want to for the extra money and some sanity, but also I was getting to the point of not being able to find a decent job if I left it any longer. I work the accounting/payroll area and it does change as legislation does. Along with software changes etc. I was looking at a real drop in pay and along with job happiness if I delayed any longer (lower paid jobs tend be all stress and no satisfaction). Also I looked a lot forward, as in retirement. There is a lot of lost Super in not working.

I have had to suck up putting DD2 into full-time care, which is a downside. I am able to work school hours, so it atleast keeps the days shorter, but I need to work 4-5 days per week. She is tired from it and I am tired, but it is worth it overall