You have done the best thing for you and your DH SG. I know its great when the money is coming is in but is it worth the emotional and psychological stress it has put you through? Why try to harm yourself for somebody elses business? You will find a better job, believe me. Just keep on hunting.

I used to work in a clothing manufacturing business, where i would work my butt off because everything was just so wrong. I would go home talk and sleep work. I would cry over things when it wasn't done my way as i knew my way was the right way. I was an emotional wreck. I was even given stress leave by my GP as i wasn't coping and even then i'd be called at home for help.

I found a new job and for the past 4 years, i am happier and now know that work never comes before my health or family. Work isn't meant to be causing you harm.

You've done the right thing. I hope you get the job you are after soon.

Take care of yourself, okay?

xxoo