*hugs* Marisa it must be such a hard thing to be going through, I hope you get some time to grieve.

Matilda's first is going to be a BBQ in the park for 2 hours in the arvo. Sausages & fairy bread...not very fancy. We were thinking of putting if people want to bring presents than a book would be nice, that way we can increase the book collection and people won't feel obliged to get anything big ykwim?