have both sides gotten quieter since the split?
ATM with them being so quiet I have been popping in next door, but I don't think it will last. Like MGM posted on the other side, it gets confusing with attempting to do both. Though exciting news for MummyMeg on the otherside - if you haven't already read DP propsed on her birthday.
Nothing much to add today, so far its the same kind of day as the last 3 where I can only put her down for a few minutes before the screaming starts, but she seems okay at night - actually thinking about it we had more awake times last night. 10pm, 11.30pm, 2am, 4.30am and 6am. Maybe a growth spirt?
BW I was thinking about your post whilst in bed last night and realised that two of my three BILs - sister's husband and DH's brother still haven't seen DD at all. Not the same as your sister not seeing BJ, but it made me realise that was the case.