Good for speaking to your friend Jellie... I too can recall moving to a new town too. Just over 15 yrs since I moved to Sydney from Melbourne. Jen's parents are too fragile for us to return to Melbourne... her dad could go basically anytime, and her mum still has more than 20yrs before she reaches her mum's final age (99.5)

Hmm, double tickers, I guess I could use one at the moment