Hello All....
Well we are having a better day today thank god! Just staying at home as its wet and rainy and I am trying to clean/tidy as I have a friend staying with us this weekend (yay some girl talk!) No major tanties yet.....but he always chucks one when he wakes up from his nap. I think my major thing with DH and Beau is that, Beau can never do a thing wrong in DH's eyes, and DH hates work at the moment so he thinks being at hime would be the best ever you know? He left me a note this morning after no talk/cuddles last night saying he was sorry he upset me and texted me asking if I still love/like him! I told him why I was upset though which is good for me
My mum and her husband have offered to buy me a (little cheap) car so I can learn on it too and get my licence, at least then when he is kicking off we can have a change of scenery too. Need to get off my bum and get my l's!
Kris - Thanks for your advice with the time outs, I am going to start doing it with B as they are getting worse as the days go on. What do you say to Dylan when you are doing it to make him stay/understand etc?
I am sorry your DH was being a bone head too, sometimes they state the obvious thinking they are helping or something but all we want is a cuddle! I think its healthier sometimes to have a breather than say something you might regret or fight in front of the kids too, as long as we say what is on our minds eventually. Reading through what you do in a week makes my toes curl, we do about a tenth of that! As you said, generally you do cope really well, so give yourself a pat on the back for that, everyone has a melt down occasionally.
Mel - Good luck with Becca's shots today, she sounds like she is doing well with her eating and sleeping! Hugs to you with DH's obsession with cars..luckily my Dh has no interest but if its not that its always something, fishing, cricket etc etc! Maybe if we had more time to do hobbies like that we would be all as oblivious as our DH's???!
Dis - Good on you getting to the gym and enjoying it, bless your mum! Far out Ben is in the wars atm, are you putting Hydrozol (sp?) on his hives? Hope it clears up soon x
Kaz - Not this month for me, just finished AF unfortunately.
OK got washing to fold x