belle it can be difficult to let DH do some of the caring, but don't shut them out of the caring for baby, there will be times to come when you need some you time - let DH help and trust that he will look after bubs.
I'm over the baby(honey)moon stage too, more at the what have i done stage now - but I know it will pass.
Tarnee if you're anything like me with the emergency c-section - you need to do what works best for you and for the first two weeks getting out of bed and to the cot was just too hard - baby on chest and sidelie feeds were the order of the night for me. How are you finding your recovery?
I found wheat products - bread in particular was a problem with DS getting reflux - what blood type are you?
Leyla Greer being my second - I realise that it's okay to let her cry as long as it is not a distressed cry, although I can't stand it for more that a couple of minutes and the baby carrier seems to be getting a lot of use this time round since she cries the minute you put her down.