Leah, the prob is being in melb i only have IL's over here, who havent even called since the split, let alone offered support. All my family's in Perth, and i wot be able to go over there for a while. Im barely keeping my head above water with food rent and bills, let alone saving to move across the country...

Sarah - im not frustrated, im f*cking p*ssed... his excuse is i wanted the kids. Of course i want them!! But i just want some time off too!!

Kat - go on essential baby, bub hub (not anymore though, leah's right, they can be b*tches!!) and austprem. As well as here. I have less than 50 posts on all the other forums... so you can tel where i spend all my time LOL!!