SIMONE~You know what simone there is a light at the end of the tunnell Ill tell you a little story... There once was this lady who had 3 kids under 3 she was 24 by they time she had all of them 1 at 20 2nd at 22 and the last just before her 24th birthday she was married but the DH was a drop kick, in and out all the time, dealing drugs, selling wedding presents and airlooms for his nasty habit, he even set his car on fire blamed it on a friend but eventually, actually, years later got done for insurance fraud. Meanwhile the mother of 3, battered wife was busy studying to get a degree, looked after her 2week old littlest while in class and the other 2 were in daycare, the eldest was very independant mind you she would come home and the husband would bet her and the eldest child then she would go back and study put the kids in daycare WHILE the husband would sit on his dole bluging a$$. the kids were always at their grandparents when they grew up the kids were taken to school by them everyday even though they lived 30mins from them, she had great support. The mother finished her degree and stared off teaching ppl with disabilities to work.. then one day the husband left both the eldest child and the mother quite badly bruised and the mother thought that was enough! they tried to escape many times before but this time it actually worked the police came and locked the man away and they were husband and wife no more. The mother of 3 now had a 12yr old a 10yr old and a 8yr old and she moved them to canberra much to the childrens dismay. over the years she married, brought herself a VERY big house and now she actually works in the same office as minister Cob and minister brough in parliment house in the section of health and families (she writes the poicy for every family in australia well helps) and you know what? that was my mum, well is my mum and she lived on $24,000 a yr with 3 kids and a dead beat husband. NOT that this is you simone, but there is a BIG light at the end of the tunnel you just gota find it whether it is staying in melbourne and getting on top, or moving back to ur mum, u will find it, just give it time. mayb u need to look at getting a part time job? some people have to, it doesnt make you any less of a mother just one who cares.... hope I havent been a bore and u liked my story? im off to print it and keep it in my diary as it helped get a few things out....
Sarah~ can we pick a place thats not so big? considering we dont really know what we all look like???
NATALIE~ IM IN TUGGGERANONG!!!!! do u need help moving!?! I could come c u saturday and help if u need!!!! OMIGOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!! heres my email daniel.leah@bigpond.com.au
Last edited by lucysmummie; January 18th, 2007 at 07:30 AM.
she would come home and the husband would bet her and the eldest child then she would go back and study put the kids in daycare WHILE the husband would sit on his dole bluging a$$. the kids were always at their grandparents when they grew up the kids were taken to school by them everyday even though they lived 30mins from them, she had great support. The mother finished her degree and stared off teaching ppl with disabilities to work.. then one day the husband left both the eldest child and the mother quite badly bruised and the mother thought that was enough! they tried to escape many times before but this time it actually worked the police came and locked the man away and they were husband and wife no more. The mother of 3 now had a 12yr old a 10yr old and a 8yr old and she moved them to canberra much to the childrens dismay. over the years she married, brought herself a VERY big house and now she actually works in the same office as minister Cob and minister brough in parliment house in the section of health and families (she writes the poicy for every family in australia well helps) and you know what? that was my mum, well is my mum and she lived on $24,000 a yr with 3 kids and a dead beat husband. NOT that this is you simone, but there is a BIG light at the end of the tunnel you just gota find it whether it is staying in melbourne and getting on top, or moving back to ur mum, u will find it, just give it time. mayb u need to look at getting a part time job? some people have to, it doesnt make you any less of a mother just one who cares....
hope I havent been a bore and u liked my story? im off to print it and keep it in my diary as it helped get a few things out....
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