Another thing that works for us - although a controversial one - is the dummy. G will be fed, clean and burped but still wanting to suckle for comfort, with the dummy and a cool dark room with some music on she settles herself. When she's asleep I go and take the dummy off her so she gets used to waking up without it and it's working well, she'll wake up without the dummy and not stress and just go back to sleep if everything else is all good. That's why right now I'm lucky enough to have finished the housework and sat down to relax with a cup before I go to bed! Hope you find something that works for you.. Have you tried putting a radio on for her??