Hi ladies

Jules i too am no expert but my SIL spent a lot of time in NICU/Special care and what you're saying is a little strange. Frustrating for you as a mum even though you've never been in that position. And then at the same time trying to be careful of what you do say... Tricky all around but i hope things improve really quickly.
A girlfriend of mine who recently had a bub at 36ish weeks i think had her in special care for a little bit and the nurses were not always extrememly helpful and caring. I know they have a job to do but it was almost like they only cared about doing their job which was care for the baby and not really worry about the mother that much at all. A bit harsh to say i know but when she told me some of the things they did i was a bit shocked and frustrated for her.

Crumpet enjoy your holiday when you finally get there after all your packing. Have a wonderful time sharing new experiences with your family

Jules it also seems as my SIL is wanting to make a bit of an effort which is great and i am happy to try and get along and be like we used to be. I just don't want to get hurt again so i'll have my guard up still. We'll just see how it goes.

We're okish here. Harper is beautiful and smilying and ROLLING and having some rice cereal. She seems to be really enjoying the eating part of it and opens her mouth like a little pro and chews and swallows. She was really ready THe only thing is she seems to be doing lots of little vomits lately. After he milk feeds and after the cereal and hours after each. I suppose it's not a big deal but it's so strange that we've gone from a baby who never vomited to one that frequently vomits to the point where it's a bit projectile and lands on the floor. I'll just keep seeing how it goes.
And i've still got the bb issue and it's really starting to bother me. I'm not seeing any real improvements after being back to the dr's twice now. I'll go back again next week i think. It's got to go away soon surely!?

ANyway that's it for me, Charlie and Harper are sleeping so i'm going to get some things done to make the most of it.

Loving the sunshine!!! I've got the doors open and nappies in the sun