Oh, well that's just mean then Charlotte! It's so wrong when adults make fun of kids
That's terrible you're having nightmares, poor thing. Understandable though, it must have been a very scary and stressful experience.

Will probably start DD with swimming in term 4, when it's warmer. plus our local place is closed for refurbishment (or something) next term.

We have nearly 3 years between these two and I'm thinking if we have another (we'll probably try at least) then maybe even go for a 3-4 year gap. We only have 2 embryos left, who knows what will happen The thought of having babies close together gives me the willies Cannot do it, but hat off to those that manage it. After DS there was no way in hell we were ready to try before he was 18 months old - it was just too hard. DD has been easier, lack of sleep aside, but you never know what you're going to get. In the end I think you just make do with what youv'e got, though, don't you?