Thanks Nic - that mesh thing doesn't look too appealing! It said it could be used for teething, putting ice in it.. which would probably be good.. but I can't fathom sucking apple or anything through it. Yuck! and how do you clean it?

I had carpal tunnel when pg with Tallon. It was horrible. I'm glad it went away when he was born. Sorry to hear you've got it now.

Lauren I think the Family Assistance stuff is national, just like our taxes.

ETA: Bek - nope, not turning the car seat around for a long time yet. Much safer rear facing, and Kayla is pretty much looking at Tallon next to her, so it doesn't worry her. (too bad if it did anyway lol)