I can't even do that.. She is to smart for meShe sees the spoon coming and clamps shut.. thats what i tried the other day..
little Rat woke up bout 40 mins ago.. she heard me telling Dh I was going to bedShe is in bed now but not sure if she is going to sleep...





She sees the spoon coming and clamps shut.. thats what i tried the other day..
She is in bed now but not sure if she is going to sleep...


I ended up at thr clinic today bawling my eyes out. The CHN- one i haven't seen before- has referred me to Trisiliian and 'demonstrated' today the settling method we will have to use. She popped him in his pram and tried to pat him to sleep. He screamed uncontrollably for a agood five minutes. I cried. She told me not to pick him up. I didn't. Then she ushered me out of her office into a busy shopping centre, telling me to just walk him until he went to sleep and don't pick him up. I couldn't get out of there fast enough. I picked up my sobbing, shaking baby boy and stood there and cried my eyes out. I'm so angry at her. Ty was hysterical. I'm angry at myelf too. I should have put a stop to it when he started to get into a state. I shouldn't have gone there in the first place. i know all the settling methods they use and I've tried them all. They don't work for Ty. And leaving him to cry like that was just cruel. So now I have a stressed, overtired baby, I'm still losing my mind and I'm expecting a call from Trisillian in a few days and I'm going to have to explain that I don't really want to go there.
What a horrible experience.. I hope Ty settles down for you.. May I make a suggestion. just lay down with him during the day. Get on top of the sleep issue by getting him to catch up on some sleep and you too and then work on the settling issues.. I have found with my kids they get harder and harder to settle the more tired they are.. (steps down on the ideas now

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