:help:Ok everyone, I need some muchly needed Advise, opinions, anything......! :help:
:confused: OK, I have just found a job add that I am VERY keen on. Not garrenteeing ill get it but I would love some advice from those of you back/going to work and childcare..
I emailed my resume just cos I was so excited when i saw it, Its specialising in paediatrics and its sort of close to home (13mins) and also in a hospital 2mins from me where i have previously worked before...- Great money too!
:confused: I have a huge passion for my nursing and lately been craving going back, yet I will be heart broken to be away from Ash.
Mum looked after Ash for the very first time for 2 hours yesterday whilst I had my doctors apt and besides i almost didnt know what to do with myself lol he was perfectly fine with mum. - The position is 4 days a week, but mum said she will do one on her day off, so that leaves 3.
SO, my dilemma is,
1) How do i know when Ash is ready for childcare?
2) How do you pick a great day care, and most importantly - do they tell you ur baby is upset i think you should come get them!!
3) How an earth do you do it??? start one day a week then slowly do more??
4) Does this mean Ash must be fully weaned? And he should have cows milk now as a calcium substitute??
:confused: Also am I being selfish because ive been given the chance by mum to live here just paying very cheap board, so i can be a stay at home mum, and i should be using that to be with Ash as long as I can........!
:confused: I so dont know what the right thing is. I know lots of mummys have to go back to work, some very early.. but i have never had a child in care so i dont know how they react to it or if ill regrett it. I guess I can always try it and quit if its too much. At least i have that flexability being at home with mum, but i need to get back out working again, i feel like a leech on mum!
:confused: Am i gonna miss all the exciting things Ash will do cos hes with someone else, and will his needs be filled? And i cant take him to gymbaroo and mother group!! I can still do swimming on weekends i guess. ...... aaaaahhhhh :wall:
I think the biggest fear is him being upset and them not telling me or them being mean to him!! - How is a mother supposed to feel comforted leaving there baby with a stranger who also has 4-5 other kids to watch at the same time!
Would love to hear oppinions and other people experiences!! Sorry for the BIG me post.

