Nic - that does sound like bliss... i am yet to go through a single night without waking atleast a min of 5 times...
These last couple days ive been so unwell with migranes.. i know i get headaches alot but i cant believe i finally know what a real migrane is now.. 2 days straight of non stop pain.. i couldnt even move around bending down to pick up ash felt like 2 people where smashing either side of my head with bricks and my eyes were gonna pop out..LOL
I finally took nurofen migrane for the first time in 2 years ... mmmm was nice!!
Ash is at ABC today so im taking it pretty cruisey... Im spending the weekend at my dads house whos going away and needs his kitten looked after.. im so looking forward to the break away from 3 annoying dogs here...Im also hoping rob will come down and visit now we will be alone...
I tried to get him to catch up this week but he works too late so only wants to catch up on weekends.. how bloody crap.. if ash meant that much he would make more effort!! Ash will take forever warming up to him just seeing him once a week on weekends.. grrh
I had such a crap night lasnt night... ash had terrible tummy aches and i was up ALL night, pacing it got to mid night and i thought i would go sit in the lounge try to get him moving a bit but he decided to just sleet so at 1am i got back into bed and it got a little better afterwards but still had to keep waking up to comfort him every hour or less, i cant even remember.
Dads kitten was driving me nutts, just wanted to play and crawl on ash.. and when i locked her out the room she sat by the door and cried.. AS well as about 10-11pm rob starts smsing me saying his whole family are over and hes telling his 2 sisters and BIL about ash.
They took the news well aparently and are pretty excited to meet him...
But i actually got quite angry last night.. i know they got his fluffed version and besides the SIL and brother the rest dont know the real story, which i know i have to get past, but hes messging me saying they want to meet the grandson, cousin.. blah blah and i said several times you need to start seeing him before they meet him cos frankly ash is affraid of rob right now and i feel like now the parents know and are excited, rob is wanting to show him off like hes some trophy and proud dad....i could be totally wrong here.. but he is still the ***** that has treated me and ash like ***** the last 2 years and hes obviously not showing any intrest in making an effort to see ash...
I asked him this week to catch up cos i was taking ash to the beach.. and he was too busy working so i said fine i wont ask again (he always says he works and cant) and last night after i said u need to see him he said i do want to, i said well you have my number and he said he would talk to me today... well its almost 5 and havent heard a thing.. im soo freaking p!ss3D GGRRHHHH......
First off, Nic your avvy looks hot **wolf whistles**
Lauren hun I don't even know what to say. He sounds like such a p****. If he won't make any effort, it is possible to by-pass him altogether and contact his mum, and gradually introduce Ash to his other grandparents? You can do it without Rob, and show him he needs to pull his socks up. Maybe it will give him a kick up the butt, and if not, then at least Ash will know the extended family. He sounds really immature hun- I think he needs to grow up a bit.
I am sooo tired. I went out last night to see the Veronica's with a mate and we got home late and now I am paying for it big time Going to try and have an early night...
Hun, maybe if you explained to his mum what you're trying to do and the way Rob is responding, and explain you don't want to overwhelm Ash and would like to introduce him the family a little bit at a time, and you don't want to cause any trouble but you'd like to start the process asap, while Ash is still really young. Maybe she'll understand that- she's a mum, after all. And if Rob doesn't like, well then, bad luck!!
I really feel for you. You're trying to do the right thing and he is just making it so difficult.
Lauren: I would say give him time but seriously he had 9 months before he was born and now 14 months.. I;m sorry but its time to think of you and Ash. (please don't think I am being mean) I just think bugger what he wants now.. If you want him to know his Grandparents then go right ahead.. When the time comes and Ash asks who is Father os or why he doesn't have much to do with him tell him upfront.. Meeting the Grandparents will just be like you going to a mums group or something and meeting other people.. Ash doesn't have to go there without you.. Drop round for coffee from time to time.. ease into it.. I really hope things work out for Ash and your sake.
My father had every opportunity to get to know me as a child and he never did.. I re met him at my wedding 10 years ago and he still doesn't make an effort.. I haven't seen him for over 3 years and he only lives just over an hour away now.. I knew my Nanna.. I didn't see her much but I knew who she was.. I don't feel like I have missed out on anything great by not having my Father in my life.. I had my Grandfather who was like a father figure to me.. My mum did a wonderful job as a single mum as will you.. Rob has to understand as time goes on it gets harder and harder..
You are doing a wonderful job and I hope you get some great support from his family eveb if he isn't involved
Now I am off my soapbox :blush: (hope I haven't offended Lauren. If I have I don't mean to)
I am a very red girl tonight... We went to Agnes Waters (beach town) today with some people Simon work with.. very long hot but fantastic day.. I made triply sure the kids had sun cream on and I forgot myself.. *sigh* When we got home we went over to one of the guys houses for a swim and I was having a great time till Jacob threw something into the pool and split my eye brown open.. *woops* Danm it hurt.. It didn't need anything but a towel held to it or a while lol.. Jacob kissed it better and said I put a bandaid on it mummy then I take it off when it all better.. Such a sweet heart
Hi ladies,
Another wet day here,Kieren is much better,but Tiger has Croupe again.
I wish i knew why he keeps getting it....sighing.....We are having a very quiet weekend just watching kids movies. Today we had a really bad thunder storm come through and the little one were crying it kept making us jump,the thunder was deafening,we even had hail,what is it with our stupid weather.
Nic- I love your sexy Avi,hun! looking good,lol. Hope you eye isn`t too sore,i bet that was a shock.....kids! Sounds like you had a really good family day.
Buzzie- Well hun,I think Lori & Nic have summed things up really well,I think you should just get on with your life,gradually introduce the Grandparents if they seem keen,but as for Ash`s dad,well,words can`t really describe a bogan like him,you don`t need him hun.
Lauren you must make Ash your first priority! which we know you do,your a terrific Mum & you need to focus on Ash & yourself now,stuff Rob,it`s his loss,bloody Tosser! Sorry hun,but how much more upset do you need to go through,ay..... I?m with Nic...sorry i try not to offend,but Ash needs people in his life who want to be with him,hun.
I really hope thing work out the way you would like then too.
Lori-Hi how is ya? Sounds like your been out party hard my luv,lol. You have fun, hun,enjoy yourself while you can.How`s little Ty going? Hey,did you get that bad storm today,it was scary.....
Well hope everyone is doing well,I?m so tired from the kids being sick,but crap happens. night all.
Going to try and have an early night...
I would say give him time but seriously he had 9 months before he was born and now 14 months.. I;m sorry but its time to think of you and Ash. (please don't think I am being mean) I just think bugger what he wants now.. If you want him to know his Grandparents then go right ahead.. When the time comes and Ash asks who is Father os or why he doesn't have much to do with him tell him upfront.. Meeting the Grandparents will just be like you going to a mums group or something and meeting other people.. Ash doesn't have to go there without you.. Drop round for coffee from time to time.. ease into it.. 
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