susan - funny u say that. mum was convienced for a long time that he was... the only thing is, hes has the severe wind pains since he was 2 months old, so well before he started solids. I tried a diary free diet, a caffiene free and i think lactose - but didnt get far with that one.
But if this iron doesnt help him i will absolutely look into his foods. The GP said we still need to find the cause of why his body made him iron deficient at this age. he said its unusual for a baby to be so young.. normally kids about 4 or 5 when they start gettign very fussy with foods and refusing everything..

we had ANOTHER massvie tantie last night.. seems to be happening every night this week, except he only stops when mum or her exhubby cuddles him.. last night they were out and he did it for 1/2hour straight... omg i was so upset and angry and just didnt know what to do.. nothing made him stop and everytime i touched him he screamed worse.. yet if i left the room he ran after me... (i think still checking i was listening to him!!) mum finally came home and Peter (exhubby) picked him up and he stopped straight away and was fine, after about 20mins he was ready for mummy cuddles and fell straight to sleep!!! OMG talk about feeling unwanted