Nic - thats exactly where most of my issues are with Ash i am just way to tired to fight with him. I would rather get out of been 2-3 even 4-5 times a night to feed him for 2 mins back to sleep than spend 40 mins getting him to sleep without boobie as he did a month or so ago.... Too damn hard. I still feed Ash too to get to sleep at night... i figure if he can sleep perfect at childcare then he still does know how to settle himself without me... hes just a monkey for me!