rory - both 30th and 31st are out for me... ahh this month is such a busy time for me. but if everyones happy with first week in feb, Febs pretty quiet for me except wednesdays cos mothers group.

Bindy - thats awesome bout the weight gain, ash put on about 700g over the last 2 weeks so we were happy bout that too. I have to try the patting to sleep thing and teach him to fall alseep on his own, but i dont think im gonna enjoy it. She said leave him to cry for a bit but i tell u, ill be the one crying with him! LOL i must admit i do jump to him too quick, he barely gets a chance to cry wen hes woken up cos im already picking him up hehe..

I took ash out today to register my car and he was sooo good. popped into the shop too last night and he cried but i thought i seriously need to get over this so i picked him up and kept doing what i was doing, i figure i cant keep running out of shops and he eventually stopped crying and was happy as to lay in my arms the rest of the time. yay! so thats really boost my confidence alot.

is it bout 3months old they can hold there head up? i cant wait to take him shopping and hold him without a blobbly head. hehe