Nic, I think 5.5kgs is fine too. And remember that all babies gain at a different rate, esp breastfed bubs.

Sorry, I just have to ask. What is it exactly that we are doing wrong ? I am pretty sure that this very same chatter happens in other baby groups and belly groups. Is it simply because we have a bigger group ? Not questioning the authority, merely the reasoning behind it. The cloth nappy thread moves faster than this too.