moose: click on mine and a website pops up! i know i need me time - thus darren is sleeping on the couch now (doing a very cute attempt at catching flys!)but i like being with him (he sleeps in bed with me!) plus with all thats happend with him i find its better for me to have him near me becuase that way i know he's ok...and i know hes warm after it went from being 30+deg to 18 in the space of 24hrs lol. your lucky with sammy she only has 2 witching hours - darren is 'witchy' from 5pm-9pm normaly...then up again at 11:30pm- midnight so feeds can finish at 1:30am (with all this issues with feeds!) darrens birth waight was 7 pund 14oz. hes now 8 pound 2oz (which isnt huge...but its SOMETHING ) hopefully it'll be uphill from here!