Moose, DH and I haven't yet DTD. Took me almost 6mths after #1 and 3mths after #2. I'm only scared because i tore. Although not nearly as bad as the last 2 as i didnt even get stitches this time. But i still freak out!
Gottarun..Orson won't stop crying. I'll be back to post more later.
Moose: My DH and I have DTD once since Oliver was born... and it hurt! So much so that I haven't tried again. I don't know why it hurt... I had a c/s, so my downstairs was unharmed in the birth process. I'm thinking maybe it has to do with changing hormones? Maybe things are a bit drier? I really hope it's better next time.
TBH, I much prefer a cuddle these days.
Sterla, things do go dry 'down there' after pregnancy. Best to use a bit of lube next time! It goes back to normal after a while though so its not like that forever.
good evening ladies!
Moose & sterla - DH and i DTD. it was rather...odd! i was thinking about asking you ladies if you'd tired! it was *ok* for us...but i felt..*ahem* differant? as DH put it "your a vergin but...not!" in regards to not knowing what to expect!
Anithea - aww with the dragon pics, thats soo, soo cute!
AFM: easter was...interesting. saw my mum n dad friday. Daz had horrable, horrable wind. my mother got shirty with me becuase she didnt get a nurse but she also started a fight between DH and I about Daz getting swaddled and being 'too cold' when he had warm socks on she put on light cotton ones :OMG: i think she was also feel smug about the fact i gave darren formular (in an attempt to push the wind out the other end!) aaaaand she was just...blech all saterday, Ohh and when he needed to sleep she kept talking to him like "hello darre this is your nanna" in a really alert tone! havent talked to her since! saw the ILs sunday. which was nice. Darren was smiling at them lots and just getting to know them! today we had a 'fair well champ' bbq for DH's best friend whoes off to Japan for 10months. (or less) on a working visa. (in japan they dont give them out once your over 31...and you can only get a 12mth one at 30!) so we had him, his DP (whoes a good friend of mine) and friends of mine over. we where ment to have another friend of DH and his mate but sadly (and kinda scarely) his mate lets call him A, his XDP had their son for the weekend...he went to pick him up and he was really sick - long story short they're getting him drug tested becuase they think she was smoking drugs 'round the poor kid! but we had a good time. i had the most to drink i've had since november! i had 3 whole cans of Jim Beam and coke! (over the space of 8 hours mind you) which was an effort for me. i dont think it affected daz at all. (it may have even relaxed him some)
And tomorrow one of my high school teachers is comming over to see daz!
Hope you're all having a good moring by the time you read this!
baby_blip - argh dont parents get on your nerves sometimes!
thats awesome you got to relax and have a bit of a drink and enjoy yourself.
OMG that poor little kid.. i hope he is ok!
Antheia - that pic is soo cute! i got bella a bunny teddy!
jords - dont stress you will work out BB soon enough.. and become addidcted! am i right ladies? i cant wait to see little winter!
moose - we have DTD once and i hated it. i refuse to do it again. it didnt hurt at all, i just didnt like it! i learnt to do my exercises this time because with DS i didnt do them and was constantly having little 'accidents'.
sterla - thanks for your msg xx im with you on the whole cuddling thing! hope everything is going ok
AFM: bella is doing ok! she is up almost 2 pounds from her birth weight! (was 7lb 4oz - is now 10lb 2 oz) sleeping fantastic which is great im finally catching up on some (when im not on BB )
hope you all get some sleep tonight xx
Good morning Ladies,
How is everyone and their Bubs? I had the crappiest sleep last night so Im feeling a bit cranky today which is unlike me which makes it worse! Winter only woke up twice last night but wanted to suckle ALL night(and refuses the dummy,has to be my nipple) and then kept spitting it so I basically held by boob in position for most of the night,argh. Then as usual I greeted her after DP left for work and i got huge smiles, such a cheeky turd
Moose Im a dork! Winter was actually born on the 4th of feb 09,so I'll have to fix that I cant believe Sam has slept through! you lucky thing!!
DP and I kind of DTD about 2 weeks ago but I was so nervous and it really did hurt so it pretty much only lasted for 3 mins before I called it off... I thought if I got it out of the way Id be less apprehensive about the whole thing, but it kind of went the other way, I really dont want to go there... to make it worse DP's bro had a Bub 5 weeks after us and they DTD after only 3 weeks... as if I want to know?! I already felt bad about the whole thing! argh LOL sorry Im ranting here. Im with Sterla here, Id way rather cuddles( which I hardly get either co-sleeping!)
How good was being able to pig out when pregnant! I find now Im really not eating much during the day but at dinner i have (literally) four serves so Im a bit worried about putting on weight. Im back to prepreg weight but I think Im going up again!
Baby _blip- ARGH dont parents drive you crazy sometimes??! That sucks about your Mum, at least you did the right thing and saw family at easter now you can probably get away with not seeing them for a while Good to hear the rest of your wkend was ok and you got to let your hair down a touch
Rainbow_Raver, Im already hooked on BB! its such a great website. Im only sad I didnt discover it when pregnant. How do I get pics on though??
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So much so that I haven't tried again. I don't know why it hurt... I had a c/s, so my downstairs was unharmed in the birth process. I'm thinking maybe it has to do with changing hormones? Maybe things are a bit drier? I really hope it's better next time.
but she also started a fight between DH and I about Daz getting swaddled and being 'too cold' when he had warm socks on she put on light cotton ones :OMG: i think she was also feel smug about the fact i gave darren formular (in an attempt to push the wind out the other end!) aaaaand she was just...blech all saterday, Ohh and when he needed to sleep she kept talking to him like "hello darre this is your nanna" in a really alert tone! havent talked to her since! saw the ILs sunday. which was nice. Darren was smiling at them lots and just getting to know them! today we had a 'fair well champ' bbq for DH's best friend whoes off to Japan for 10months. (or less) on a working visa. (in japan they dont give them out once your over 31...and you can only get a 12mth one at 30!) so we had him, his DP (whoes a good friend of mine) and friends of mine over. we where ment to have another friend of DH and his mate but sadly (and kinda scarely) his mate lets call him A, his XDP had their son for the weekend...he went to pick him up and he was really sick - long story short they're getting him drug tested becuase they think she was smoking drugs 'round the poor kid! but we had a good time. i had the most to drink i've had since november! i had 3 whole cans of Jim Beam and coke! (over the space of 8 hours mind you) which was an effort for me. i dont think it affected daz at all. (it may have even relaxed him some)
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I cant believe Sam has slept through! you lucky thing!!
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