Moose: My DH and I have DTD once since Oliver was born... and it hurt! So much so that I haven't tried again. I don't know why it hurt... I had a c/s, so my downstairs was unharmed in the birth process. I'm thinking maybe it has to do with changing hormones? Maybe things are a bit drier? I really hope it's better next time.
TBH, I much prefer a cuddle these days.