Anthiea- hows Orson doing today? i hope you got some sleep!

Jords - im slowly stopping the Co-sleeping becuase i feel darren is 'fatterning up' and can keep warm. but once he's big enough DH has said that he can sleep in our bed after his first feed on saterday/sunday mornings! its a strange feeling not having daz in bed with me though

sterla honey - that women needs a melly bashing. full stop. i've been though alot, but one thing i can and will stand ferm on - DO WHAT YOU KNOW WORKS AND FEELS RIGHT. that women has seen him ONCE and seen you ONCE she knows NOTHING! ok? you're not over reacting i think thats a normal reaction (and over reaction is telling her to bugger off as i've said to a few nurses already!) your working out how to be a mother and what may 'clinicly' work for this MCHN may not work for you at all! as for tummy time some babies HATE it, what'd say to them? 'let them scream' i think bloody well not (can you tell i've got a bee in my bonett? lol) you are doing the best for you and your son. as a mother, a women a human being. you know your son the best (hello you spent nine months growing him!) dont let her bring you down becuase what you're doing is far from wrong or not good enough. your son is growing and is happy- thats what counts! trust me. you're doing good if Oli can be put down semi awake - i still cant do that with daz. but hey, each babys differant! dont doubt your self you're doing really good..forget what she said and let karma bite her bum. just rember "mummie knows best"

AFM: daz has been a acheeky little man today. didnt sleep from 9am untill 2pm! (with two feeds in there lol) but is now alseep...he woke up when his dummy popped out of his mouth but thats all! woo. now i need to go and finish the dishes! hope every one is having a good day!