Lil, my DH tells DS off for "groping" me too! Of all the stupid comments he could make, he doesn't even want to touch them himself. At least DS hasn't made the little happy yummy noises when DH is around, he'd try to ban BFing if he did that.

Emily, DS gains 40g a day all from me, small wonder I'm so hungry and thirsty all the time.

MG, I'm thinking of you and hope you're ok.

as for me (stopping using caps due to feeding), the 6w check was v. brief for me, but ds behaved very well, let the doctor do her checks, gave a little smile (first one for days, but then kept on all afternoon) and was generally an angel. he is now at a normal weight - which means he's putting on more than average - his height is back up above normal and he's a wunderkind generally. The routine works, but if I break it all hell breaks loose at night - we do getting up, nap, going out, nap while mummy has lunch, playtime, nap so mummy can make dinner (but wake up wanting to eat with the family as mummy dishes up the meal), quiet play and bathtime, bed. Works really well unless going out time is in the afternoon, like for the GP appointment! i managed 8.30-1.30 and 2.30-7.30 sleeps out of him one night!