Hey!

Catherine, you're going through a lot of what I went through over ten years ago! I wish I knew then what I know now, but hey, you can't change the past!

Have you thought about booking a counseling session and going whether he goes or not? I've heard that this can still be of benefit because it teaches the person who goes how to deal with the person who doesn't. And you never know, he might feel that if the money's spent, then might as well go too!? Just a thought and I hope you don't feel I'm butting in. I really do feel for you.

Another thing to think of is that a counselor will be able to point you in the right direction for resources etc that might help, regardless of what you end up doing.

I really do hope you can sort things out.

Us - Not much is new. Still no "words" as such spoken by our little angel. She continues to wave and claps madly when we sing "If you're happy and you know it"! Very cute. I can safely say that's her favourite song right now. I think I read somewhere that someone asked about putting bub on floor in restaurants etc. I personally never would. You just don't know what's on the floor, and especially in a restaurant there could be little shards of glass or anything. Not worth it. I'm the same with shoes in shopping centres (Kel knows about this!). I think kids should wear shoes in shopping centres for the same reason. I'd hate for Bella to hurt herself by standing on something dodgy and the floors in those places are disgusting and dirty! Yuk! I'm no domestic princess, but seeing people in shopping centres with black crap all over their feet is just gross.

DH and I are off to Thailand in Jan which is VERY exciting! When I was working at the wealth creation seminar in October, one of the presenters overheard me helping one of the other presenter's wives with her website. He then asked me if I knew about that kind of stuff and we had a chat and he offered me a job on his technical support team. In return I get to do his course for nothing, and we go to Thailand in Jan to learn more stuff and only have to pay to get there and our dinners. Also, I will be mentored by him and his team to get my sites up and running and generating income, so it's all good. So far his course has been brilliant!!! I'm sooo excited! The last time I was overseas was in 1983!!!

Better go and get stuff done before bub wakes - she's got a nice virus, kindly passed down to her by her big sister so she's been a barrel of laughs lately! ARGH!

Will do personals next time - I promise!