shoegal - hi there! long time no hear!!
nope no advise either.. still struggling here!!
esme - thanks for that link, i'll post our struggles there....

Jacki/Bun - wow pregnant already, those ladies are so brave or have lots of support.
yeah, think we'll have another bub when Lakshman is about 3 years. so we'll start trying just as before he turns 2. i dont think i can cope with 2 small babies.
jacki i turn 36 next year.. so i guess, i'll be 38 when we have no. 2. gee. i feel so old already.